How demisexuals feel emotional attractions before experiencing physical ones

Demisexuals feel sexual attraction only after deep emotional connections are formed. This term was coined by the sexual identity community to describe people who experience romantic or sexual attraction exclusively after forming an emotional bond. Unlike asexual individuals, demisexuals do have the desire for physical contact and pleasure, but this does not occur until they feel strong emotional ties with another person. They may be able to imagine themselves sharing a life with someone without feeling the need to pursue a sexual relationship. Demisexuals tend to develop deep friendships before becoming involved in romance, and view relationships as more than just physical interactions. Their lack of interest in casual hookups is one reason why some individuals mistakenly believe them to be asexual. The term 'demi' means half or partial, which describes how these individuals approach sexuality. Sexual attraction comes from within instead of being influenced by outside factors such as looks or personality. Demisexuals often prefer long-term partnerships due to their focus on building intimacy rather than lust. While there is no exact number of demisexuals worldwide, it is believed that they comprise around 0.5% of the population. Research suggests that most people identify as demisexual during adolescence or early adulthood, although some remain so throughout their lives. Studies indicate that demisexuals are more likely to report dissatisfaction with sex than those who experience immediate sexual attraction. However, when they do engage in sexual activity, they tend to prioritize emotional connection over physical gratification. While many demisexuals still experience sexual fulfillment, they often require a deeper level of trust and closeness to reach orgasm. This can lead to less sexual experimentation and fewer sexual partners over time. Despite societal pressure to conform to norms, demisexuals are proud of their identity and appreciate the label. They recognize that not everyone shares this perspective, but feel validated knowing others understand their experiences.