1) The first factor that influences men's and women's comfort with using sexual toys in public versus private settings is age. Generally speaking, older people are more conservative and may be less comfortable using sexual toys in public due to societal norms and stigmas surrounding sex. On the other hand, younger generations tend to have more liberal attitudes towards sex and may be more open to exploring their sexuality in public. Age can also affect personal experiences with sex and sexuality, which may influence comfort levels when it comes to using toys.
2) Another factor is cultural background. Some cultures have stronger taboos around sex than others, making it more difficult for individuals to feel comfortable using sexual toys in public. Additionally, some cultures may view sexuality as primarily private and may frown upon public displays of affection, including using sex toys. For example, in Asian countries, there is often a greater emphasis on preserving modesty and privacy regarding sexuality.
3) Gender identity can play a role as well. Men and women may have different comfort levels based on how they identify themselves. Men who identify as masculine or heterosexual may be more likely to feel embarrassed about using sexual toys in public, while women who identify as feminine or lesbian may not care as much. This could be related to social conditioning, stereotypes about gender roles, and expectations placed on each group by society.
4) Individual preferences are another important factor. Some people simply enjoy using sexual toys more in private, where they feel safe and secure without judgment from others. Others may feel more daring and adventurous and prefer to use them in public settings. These preferences may change over time and vary depending on context.
5) Personal experiences and past trauma can also impact comfort level. People who have had negative experiences with sexuality, such as abuse or assault, may find using sexual toys in public triggering or upsetting. Likewise, those who have had positive experiences may feel more confident and at ease doing so in public.
6) Body image can affect both men's and women's comfort with using sexual toys in public versus private settings. People with larger bodies or body parts that are perceived as "unsexy" may feel self-conscious or ashamed in public settings and thus choose to reserve their use of sex toys for private moments. Conversely, individuals with smaller body types or more attractive features may feel less self-conscious when engaging in sexual activity in public.
7) The type of toy being used can also influence comfort levels. Toys that require a partner or involve physical contact, such as handcuffs or blindfolds, may make it harder to conceal use in public. On the other hand, vibrators or dildos can be hidden under clothing, making them easier to use discreetly. 8) Finally, privacy concerns and personal safety play a role. Many people worry about being caught using a sexual toy in public, particularly if they live in conservative areas where sexual behavior is heavily policed. Additionally, some people may be concerned about the repercussions of public use, including judgment from others or legal consequences. Ultimately, these factors all contribute to how comfortable men and women feel with using sexual toys in different settings.