Impact play is one of the most popular types of BDSM activities that involve striking another person with various implements for pleasure. There are many ways to do it but they all have the same goal – to deliver intense physical stimulation through pain. While there are several tools used for this activity, each has its own unique feel and sensation. In this article, I will discuss how different materials and techniques can affect the experience and why you need to be careful when using them.
To begin with, spanking involves slapping someone's buttocks with your hand or any tool like paddles, whips, or floggers. It usually leaves red marks on the skin which some people find appealing. The intensity of the impact depends on how hard you strike the area and where you hit it. You should never strike the kidneys, joints, or bones as it can cause serious injuries. Similarly, flogging involves swinging a flexible whip against a body part. Floggers come in different weights and lengths, and you should choose one according to the level of sensitivity you want. They create thuddy sensations and leave welts. Cane is also very common in impact play and delivers sharp shocks due to its pointed tip. You should hold it firmly while hitting the targeted spot without aiming at vulnerable areas like neck, face, head, etc.
Another factor that affects the intensity of impact play is the rhythm of strikes. If you hit repeatedly, the pain increases gradually until it becomes unbearable. However, if you take breaks between strokes, the recipient can tolerate more impact. Some people enjoy fast-paced impact play while others prefer slow ones. This depends on their individual preferences. Another important consideration is material – wood, leather, rubber, plastic, metal, glass, etc., all produce unique sensations. Leather hits harder than wood but not as hard as metal. Wooden paddles are often preferred because they give a softer feeling without being too gentle. Rubber paddles hurt less but are heavier than leather ones. Plastic is lightweight but has no give. Glass shatters when struck, which creates an intense cracking sound but doesn't last long. Metal hurts the most but leaves little bruising.
Impact play requires skill and knowledge about human anatomy. It is essential to avoid striking the kidneys, joints, spine, and other sensitive parts of the body. Beginners may need practice before using any implement for impact play. Using improper tools or technique can result in injuries or even death. Also, make sure both partners consent to the activity and discuss safety measures beforehand. Impact play shouldn't be used during pregnancy or with open wounds, bleeding cuts/bruises, or health issues like diabetes, heart conditions, high blood pressure, etc. Before each session, check your partner's wellness level by asking questions related to health history and medical conditions. If necessary, seek professional help from a doctor or experienced practitioner.
In conclusion, impact play involves multiple factors that affect its intensity. Choose appropriate implements and techniques based on your goals and preferences. Make sure you have proper training to use them correctly. Respect boundaries and ensure everyone feels safe throughout the process. By following these guidelines, you can enjoy this exciting BDSM activity safely and responsibly.