Some Submissives Use Clothing Layers as Protocol Layers
When it comes to BDSM play, there are many different ways that people can express their submission or dominance. One way is through the use of clothing layers as protocol layers. This means that certain pieces of clothing must be put on or taken off at specific times during the scene. For example, a submissive might have to wear a skirt before being allowed to speak to their dominant partner. Or they might have to take off their pants before being spanked.
This type of layering creates a sense of ritual control. It helps to establish power dynamics between partners and creates a sense of structure within the scene. By having these rules in place, both partners know what is expected of them and how to behave.
Clothing becomes kinetic obedience
Layered dress reflects layered power dynamic
Wearing clothing layers as part of a BDSM scene isn't just about looking good - it's also about following instructions. Submissives who enjoy this kind of power exchange find it incredibly arousing to follow orders from their dominant partner. They get a thrill out of obeying commands and doing exactly what they're told.
The more layers you add, the more complex your power dynamic becomes. You can create all sorts of unique rules for your scenes, such as requiring your submissive to remove each layer before receiving pleasure. Or you could make them wait until you give permission before putting on an item of clothing.
Some people find that wearing clothing layers makes them feel more vulnerable. When someone has to ask for permission to put on or take off an item of clothing, it can be humiliating. It's a way of giving up some control over your body and submitting to your partner's will.
In addition to creating a power dynamic, wearing clothing layers can also help to build intimacy between partners. The act of removing clothing can be very sensual, especially if it's done slowly and with care. And when someone is forced to strip down, it can make them feel exposed and vulnerable, which adds an extra level of excitement to the scene.
If you're interested in trying this type of play, start by talking to your partner about what kinds of rules you want to implement. Maybe you only want to wear certain items of clothing during sex or maybe you want to require special permissions before taking anything off. Experiment with different types of layers until you find something that works for both of you. Just remember to keep communication open throughout the process!