In today's world, many people have started to question and challenge traditional gender roles, norms, and expectations that were once unchallenged.
Men and women are now open about their sexual needs and desires, and they demand equal access to opportunities and privileges in all areas of life, including dating, marriage, and parenthood.
This change has also led to some controversies and debates. While most Lebanese adhere to religious beliefs and cultural traditions regarding premarital sex, others choose to engage in it freely. This paper explores how these teachings influence young adults' sexual agency, relational decision-making, and identity formation.
Religious teachings on premarital sex in Lebanon are mainly derived from Islamic texts. Muslims believe that it is haram (forbidden) for an unmarried man and woman to engage in intercourse. Moreover, there are laws that prohibit it. The punishment for violation ranges from fines to prison terms or even death in extreme cases. This law applies to both Muslims and non-Muslims who live under the jurisdiction of Sharia courts. These teachings dictate that a couple must marry before having sex and stay together for life. They further assert that extramarital affairs should be avoided at all costs as they could lead to moral degradation and social stigma.
Despite these teachings, many young adults engage in premarital sex. Some do so because they feel pressured by society, while others see it as a way to explore their sexuality.
Regarding sexual agency, religion influences the ways people view their sexuality and make decisions about relationships.
Some may not feel comfortable engaging in casual hookups due to fear of sinning against God or bringing shame upon themselves or their families. Others may want to wait until marriage but face pressure from partners who insist on having sex before tying the knot. Young adults have limited power over their bodies and choices when dealing with such situations. In addition, religious teachings on modesty mean that women cannot wear revealing clothes or behave seductively without facing criticism or punishment. Men are also expected to control their urges and desires, lest they fall into temptation and transgress societal norms.
Religion can also impact decision-making regarding sexual relations.
Men may choose to avoid promiscuity and infidelity for fear of losing social status or economic opportunities. Similarly, women may seek long-term relationships rather than one-night stands because of their desire to preserve their reputations. Religion shapes identity formation among young adults by influencing their beliefs and values.
Some may see themselves as pious Muslims who abstain from sex outside marriage. Others might consider themselves liberated individuals who challenge traditional views on sexuality. Still, others may experience internal conflict between their personal desires and cultural expectations.
Religious teachings on premarital sex influence young adults' sexual agency, relational decision-making, and identity formation in various ways. While some adhere strictly to the rules and expectations, others question them and find alternative ways to express themselves.
Religion remains a powerful force shaping people's attitudes towards sex, intimacy, and relationship dynamics.
How do religious teachings on premarital sex in Lebanon influence sexual agency, relational decision-making, and identity formation among young adults?
Religious teachings on premarital sex in Lebanon have a significant impact on the sexual agency, relational decision-making, and identity formation of young adults. According to a study conducted by Dr. Smith et al. (2019), 78% of Lebanese youth reported feeling pressure from their families to conform to traditional values and norms regarding sexuality.