The emotional intimacy between individuals in romantic relationships can be affected by their experiences with combat, particularly for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) individuals who may face discrimination and prejudice in the military and beyond. In such situations, feelings of vulnerability and fear about exposing one's true self to others can make it difficult to form meaningful connections with potential partners.
Trauma from warfare can result in depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), which can also impede intimacy. This study seeks to explore the effects of anticipation of combat on LGBT couples and how they navigate these challenges in order to create strong bonds.
Anticipating combat has been found to increase levels of cortisol - a hormone associated with stress - in both men and women, making them more likely to feel anxious and apprehensive. For LGBT individuals, this could mean feeling even greater pressure to hide their sexuality or gender identity during deployments, as well as experiencing increased shame and guilt due to societal stigma surrounding homosexuality. These factors can lead to a lack of trust and openness within relationships, making it harder to share thoughts and feelings.
Combat itself can often involve intense physical and psychological strain that can have lasting impacts on relationships. Soldiers may experience flashbacks, nightmares, and other symptoms of PTSD that may interfere with everyday life, including romantic relationships. The resulting isolation and emotional distance can further exacerbate any existing issues between partners.
Some research suggests that LGBT couples who have experienced combat together are more resilient than those who haven't because they already understand each other's experiences and fears. By sharing the burden of military service, these couples may be able to form deeper connections based on mutual understanding and empathy.
While combat can pose significant obstacles to forming and maintaining intimate relationships for all soldiers, the unique experiences faced by LGBT troops add an additional layer of complexity. Anticipation of combat can create tension and anxiety that makes it difficult to express oneself honestly and fully, while actual deployment can result in trauma and PTSD that make it challenging to build meaningful bonds.
LGBT couples who have shared these experiences may find strength and support in each other that helps them navigate these difficulties and form stronger connections over time.
How does the anticipation of combat influence emotional intimacy in LGBT couples?
The anticipation of combat can have significant effects on emotional intimacy between LGBT couples. In general, feelings of anxiety and fear may lead to increased emotional distancing, which can be particularly problematic for LGBT individuals who may already face unique challenges related to acceptance and social support.