This research explores how users cope with the conflicting effects of validation and harassment on their erotic self-presentations. It investigates whether they adopt cognitive or behavioral strategies to deal with these stimuli, and examines which approach is more effective for maintaining positive self-esteem. By analyzing online communities dedicated to erotica, this study reveals that individuals may utilize coping mechanisms such as emotional regulation, avoidance, reappraisal, positive reframing, distraction, or acceptance. While some individuals may employ multiple techniques simultaneously, others may prefer a single strategy depending on the type of post received. The findings indicate that those who receive exclusively validation tend to have higher self-esteem than those receiving both validation and harassment or just harassment alone. This paper concludes by discussing implications for future studies and clinical practice regarding psychological interventions related to online communication.
Erotic self-presentation refers to the way people present themselves sexually online through various platforms such as social media or dating apps. Users share intimate details about their sexuality, desires, and relationships in an effort to connect with others and form meaningful connections.
The reception of posts can vary widely, ranging from enthusiastic responses to negative feedback. Prior research has shown that users experience both positive (e.g., validation) and negative effects (e.g., harassment), but little attention has been given to the ways they cope with these conflicting outcomes. To address this gap, we conducted an observational study of a popular erotic community where members regularly share personal stories and experiences. We found three main categories of coping strategies employed by participants: 1) Emotional regulation involves managing feelings associated with the response to their post; 2) Avoidance seeks to distance oneself from the situation; and 3) Reappraisal attempts to reframe the situation positively.
A user might use emotional regulation after receiving both validation and harassment by acknowledging that not all comments are meant to be taken seriously, while another may simply ignore further interactions if they feel uncomfortable. Acceptance is also common, allowing users to recognize the validity of both positive and negative feedback without becoming overwhelmed. These findings suggest that individuals develop specific coping mechanisms based on their unique personality traits and past experiences.
Our study examined whether different strategies were more effective than others for maintaining self-esteem. Individuals who received exclusively validation had higher self-esteem than those receiving only harassment or a combination of both types. This suggests that validation plays a crucial role in promoting well-being among online sexual presenters.
It remains unclear why some individuals choose one strategy over another, highlighting the need for future research into the psychological processes underlying these behaviors.
Clinicians should consider incorporating cognitive behavioral therapy techniques (CBT) to help patients cope with negative responses to their online communication. By teaching them how to manage feelings related to criticism and rejection, CBT can empower clients to take control of their personal growth and relationships.
What psychological coping strategies emerge among users who receive both validation and harassment on their erotic self-presentation posts?
There are various psychological coping strategies that may arise among individuals who experience both positive and negative feedback on their erotic self-presentations. One strategy may be to focus on the positive feedback received and try to ignore or rationalize away the negative comments. This can help boost confidence and self-esteem, which can increase motivation to continue posting erotic content. Another strategy could be to identify patterns of behavior or language in the negative comments and take steps to address them directly.