What is sexual coercion?
Sexual coercion is when one partner pressures another into having sex against their will. It includes physical force, threats, blackmail, manipulation, guilt-tripping, or other forms of psychological abuse to get someone to do something they don't want to do. Coercion can happen between friends, strangers, coworkers, spouses, parents and children, and even among people who are dating. Sexual coercion can be done by an individual or a group of people.
Effects on relational trust
When partners engage in coercive behavior during sex, it can damage trust in the relationship. Victims may feel ashamed, confused, betrayed, angry, and less likely to trust their partner. They may avoid intimacy altogether and fear being pressured again. The person who was coerced may doubt whether they have been assaulted or were responsible for the situation. Victims may also worry that others won't believe them if they report it.
Effects on satisfaction
Coercion can lead to dissatisfaction with sex because both parties may experience feelings of resentment, anxiety, regret, and frustration afterward. People may start seeing sex as a chore rather than a pleasurable activity. This can cause problems with sexual desire and enjoyment.
Effects on emotional wellbeing
Being pressured into sex can harm mental health by causing depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), and substance abuse issues. Victims may feel embarrassed, humiliated, powerless, guilty, or worthless. They may develop low self-esteem and lose confidence in themselves and other relationships. Some people might blame themselves for the coercion and suffer from body image concerns or eating disorders.
Sexual coercion is not acceptable and should never happen under any circumstances. It can cause long-term negative effects on victims' physical and mental health. If you are experiencing coercive behavior, talk to someone you trust about your experiences. You can also seek professional help from a therapist or support group.
What are the effects of sexual coercion or pressure on relational trust, satisfaction, and emotional wellbeing?
The effects of sexual coercion or pressure on relational trust, satisfaction, and emotional wellbeing can be significant and long-lasting. Research has shown that victims of sexual coercion often experience feelings of guilt, shame, and fear as a result of their experiences (Melissa et al. , 2016).