Bisexuality is an umbrella term that encompasses various identities, orientations, and behaviors. In contemporary Western societies, there are many popular misconceptions about bisexuals, such as their promiscuity, confusion, and unfaithfulness to monogamous partners. These beliefs affect how bisexual individuals navigate intimate relationships, formulate personal narratives, and make important life choices. This paper will explore how cultural myths shape social interactions between bisexuals and non-bisexuals, including in dating, marriage, parenting, employment, and community involvement. It will also examine how these myths impact self-perception, identity development, and psychological wellbeing. The paper will draw from empirical studies and cultural theories to inform its analysis.
The most common misunderstanding of bisexuals is that they are sexually promiscuous or polyamorous. According to this myth, bisexuals have 'too much' sexual appetite and enjoy having multiple sexual partners simultaneously.
Research suggests that bisexuals report lower levels of casual sex than heterosexuals, lesbians, and gay men (Bogaert & Brooks, 2014). Another myth holds that bisexuals experience more relationship instability due to confusion and indecisiveness regarding their sexual orientation. Research indicates that bisexuals are not more likely than other groups to break up with partners due to poor communication, infidelity, or lack of commitment (Ritchie et al., 2017).
A related cultural assumption is that bisexuals are inherently unfaithful to committed partners. In the popular imagination, bisexuals cannot be trusted because they may engage in extramarital affairs without warning. These beliefs create significant obstacles for bisexuals who wish to form stable monogamous relationships with individuals of different genders (Garnets et al., 2016). Bisexual women are particularly affected by this misconception as it perpetuates the idea that their attraction to both men and women makes them unreliable partners (Harrington et al., 2019). This stigma can lead to social isolation, rejection, and self-doubt among bisexuals.
Another myth about bisexuality is that it is a transitional phase before settling into a final identity. Many people believe that bisexuals will ultimately 'choose' either homosexuality or heterosexuality based on factors such as peer pressure, family acceptance, or personal preference.
Research suggests that sexual identity is fluid and complex, with many bisexuals maintaining their sexual orientation throughout adulthood (Perez et al., 2021). The concept of bi-erasure also contributes to this myth by assuming that bisexual identities do not exist or matter in mainstream culture. Biphobia and bi-invisibility lead to feelings of loneliness and marginalization among bisexual individuals, especially those outside major cities where support services are lacking (Johnson & Barker, 2020).
Cultural assumptions about bisexuality impact how they make important life decisions, including career choices, parenthood, and civic engagement. Some employers assume that bisexual employees cannot be trusted with confidential information due to their supposed promiscuity or indecisiveness (Bailey et al., 2017). Bisexuals may feel excluded from both straight and LGBTQ+ communities, leading them to avoid political activism and community service opportunities (Dogra et al., 2018). These social barriers can harm bisexuals' economic mobility, personal wellbeing, and civic participation.
Cultural beliefs about bisexuality shape social relationships, self-perception, and decision-making for bisexual individuals. These misconceptions create significant challenges for bisexuals who wish to form intimate connections, develop healthy identities, and participate fully in society. By debunking these myths, we can better understand the experiences of bisexual people and advocate for their rights and dignity.
How do cultural myths about bisexuality shape social relationships, personal narratives, and life decisions?
Cultural myths about bisexuality can have significant impacts on an individual's perception of their sexual identity, personal narrative, and social relationships. These myths may include stereotypes such as "bisexuals are indecisive", "bisexuals are promiscuous" or "bisexuals cannot commit". These misconceptions can lead to individuals feeling like they need to hide their true self from others, experiencing shame and low self-esteem.