Bisexual individuals are those who have romantic, emotional, physical, spiritual, or sexual feelings for more than one gender. Bisexual people may not necessarily engage in same-sex or opposite-sex behaviors, but they may feel attracted to multiple genders. It is estimated that around 1.9% of adult Americans identify as bisexual (2018 Gallup poll), though this percentage is likely higher due to stigma and underreporting. Bisexuals experience divine intimacy in non-affirming religious environments when they express their attraction to both genders in a safe and accepting space. This can happen during prayer, worship, meditation, study, or communion. Divine intimacy refers to a close relationship between an individual and God, where the individual feels connected, understood, loved, accepted, appreciated, and supported by God. It includes feeling emotionally and spiritually fulfilled through God's presence and guidance. Bisexual individuals experiencing divine intimacy often describe it as powerful, intense, transformative, and life-changing.
In non-affirming religious environments, bisexual individuals face discrimination, judgment, rejection, marginalization, and exclusion based on their sexual orientation. They may hide their bisexual identity to avoid negative consequences, which affects their mental health and well-being. Research shows that bisexual individuals experience higher levels of depression, anxiety, self-harm, suicidality, substance abuse, and relationship problems compared to heterosexual, homosexual, and cisgender people. Despite these challenges, many bisexual individuals continue to seek connection with God and find ways to express their bisexuality within religious communities.
Many religions recognize and affirm the importance of divine intimacy but have different views on sexuality and relationships. Some religions condemn same-sex behavior while other religions accept it. Many churches and congregations are not explicitly LGBTQ+ affirming and do not offer support for bisexuals.
Some religious leaders and members actively advocate for LGBTQ+ rights and inclusion in their faith communities. Bisexual individuals can join affirming groups or networks within a church or religion to connect with others who share similar experiences. They may also participate in online discussions, forums, meetups, workshops, retreats, and events where they can explore their sexuality and spirituality openly.
Bisexual individuals experiencing divine intimacy may feel connected to God through prayer, worship, meditation, study, or communion. They may visualize themselves as being held by God's love, embraced by God's presence, or guided by God's spirit. This can be a powerful and transformative experience, providing comfort, healing, and hope in difficult times. It is essential to cultivate a positive mindset, practice gratitude, and focus on what brings joy, peace, and fulfillment. Avoiding negative self-talk, comparing oneself to others, and dwelling on past mistakes or failures can prevent one from fully engaging in divine intimacy. Bisexual individuals should also seek professional counseling if necessary, develop healthy coping skills, and build resilience against discrimination, stigma, and oppression.
Bisexual individuals can experience divine intimacy in non-affirming religious environments by expressing their sexual orientation while remaining true to their faith. This involves finding a safe space, connecting with like-minded individuals, practicing gratitude and positivity, and seeking support when needed. By doing so, bisexual individuals can find meaning, purpose, connection, belonging, and empowerment within their community and the larger world.
How do bisexual individuals experience divine intimacy in non-affirming religious environments?
Bisexual individuals may have unique experiences with divinity due to their sexual orientation, which can be challenging in non-affirming religious environments that may not accept or support their identity. In such situations, they might feel alienated from the community and struggle to connect with God on an intimate level. They may also face discrimination, rejection, and stigma, leading to internalized biphobia and diminished self-esteem.