Many people may feel pressure to keep up with the latest trends and social media influencers on platforms such as Instagram.
This can have negative effects on personal relationships. Specifically, if one partner is drawn to erotic influencers, it can create an environment where the other partner feels insecure and abandoned. This paper will explore how these feelings manifest and how partners can work through them together.
One way that unconscious relational wounds are reopened is through comparison between oneself and others. If one partner idolizes erotic influencers on Instagram, the other may feel inferior and inadequate compared to those images. They might also question their own attractiveness or ability to meet the partner's needs.
They could experience feelings of abandonment if they perceive their partner's interest in the influencer as a sign of lack of commitment or attention.
Another way that unconscious relational wounds are reopened is by triggering past experiences of trauma or betrayal.
If one partner has had previous experiences of infidelity or neglect in a relationship, they may be triggered by the idea of their partner seeking validation from someone else. This can lead to intense emotions like jealousy or rage, which can damage the relationship further.
To address these issues, couples can engage in open communication about their concerns and fears related to the situation. They can also seek professional help to process any underlying trauma or trust issues. It's important for both partners to recognize each other's individual needs and desires, rather than making assumptions about what is "right" or "wrong." By working together, couples can build a stronger foundation of trust and intimacy despite external influences.
When one partner becomes fixated on erotic influencers on social media, it can cause painful feelings of insecurity and abandonment for the other.
With understanding and compassion, couples can work through these challenges and strengthen their bond.
What unconscious relational wounds are reopened when erotic influencers on Instagram are idolized by one partner, sparking feelings of inadequacy and abandonment in the other?
Relationships can be fragile at times, especially during these pandemic years. It is understandable that people would want to look for ways to feel connected to others who share similar interests and values as themselves. Social media has provided such opportunities through platforms like Instagram where people can find "influencers" with whom they connect emotionally.