The term 'sexual openness' has been used to describe a variety of behavioral patterns involving sex, including those that involve multiple partners, unconventional activities, and/or nontraditional gender roles.
Some researchers have argued that there are meaningful distinctions between sexual openness motivated by genuine choice and freedom, and sexual openness motivated by social expectations or pressures. This essay explores these differences using examples from current research literature.
Let us consider the concept of relational pressure. Relational pressure refers to the pressure an individual may feel from their partner or society to participate in certain types of sexual activity in order to meet their needs or desires. In one study, women who reported experiencing greater relational pressure were more likely to engage in casual sex than those who did not experience such pressure. This suggests that relational pressure can be a powerful motivator for sexual behavior, even when it is contrary to personal preferences.
Trust-based sexual openness involves individuals feeling secure enough in their relationship to explore various sexual experiences without fear of judgment or rejection. This type of openness is often seen as positive for relationships because it fosters intimacy and communication between partners. One study found that couples who felt safe discussing their sexual desires with each other tended to report higher levels of satisfaction in their relationships compared to couples who did not feel comfortable doing so.
While both types of sexual openness may involve engaging in behaviors outside of traditional norms, there is evidence to suggest that the underlying motivation behind these behaviors may be quite different. Trust-based openness may be associated with greater emotional benefits for both partners, whereas relational pressure may lead to feelings of coercion or guilt. Understanding these distinctions can help people make more informed decisions about their own sexual behavior and enhance their overall well-being.
What distinguishes sexual openness driven by trust from openness driven by relational pressure?
Open relationships differ from polyamory, which is more about dating multiple partners simultaneously. Open relationships are characterized as having an exclusive relationship with one partner while being sexually involved with other individuals outside of that relationship. Sexual openness can be driven by either trust or pressure, but there may be significant differences between these two motivations. Trust-driven openness suggests that both partners agree on the rules of their open relationship and actively participate in creating it together.