Many people today identify as LGBTQ+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, Plus) through their personal and public presentation of gender and sexuality on online platforms such as Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, YouTube, Facebook, Reddit, OnlyFans, Snapchat, and more. This can be done through images, videos, stories, captions, bios, hashtags, likes, comments, follows/following, DMs, etc. It is becoming increasingly common for individuals to express themselves this way due to increased accessibility and anonymity that social media provides compared to real-life interactions.
It also comes with psychological and social effects that have been studied in depth.
One effect is that online identity performance encourages self-reflection, exploration, expression, and community engagement.
It allows those who are closeted or experiencing internalized homophobia to explore different identities safely without fear of judgment or prejudice from others. They may experiment with different styles, vocabulary, activities, music, art, fashion, and relationships until they find what feels right for them. They may join groups where they share experiences and support each other's development.
However, there is a risk of developing an addiction or dependence on validation and attention from followers. This can lead to unhealthy behaviors such as oversharing, catfishing, trolling, cyberbullying, sextortion, scamming, and even pedophilia. The need for constant approval can become so strong that individuals lose sight of their values and boundaries, leading to exploitation and abuse.
Some people struggle with imposter syndrome or anxiety when their performance doesn't match up with reality, feeling like frauds or fakes. Others feel pressure to present certain ways to fit into specific communities or gain acceptance.
Another effect is that it can be harder to form meaningful connections offline. Online queer communities often prioritize image over substance, creating a culture of superficiality where authenticity isn't valued. Individuals may find themselves surrounded by facades, influencers, fetishes, fantasies, and roleplays rather than genuine connections based on personality, interests, and emotions. This makes it difficult to build trust, intimacy, commitment, and accountability in real life. Also, online identity performance may distract from personal development, self-awareness, communication skills, problem-solving strategies, and critical thinking skills, leading to a lack of resilience, empathy, and creativity.
What are the psychological and social effects of online queer identity performance on individuals and communities?
The performance of an online queer identity can have both positive and negative psychological and social effects on individuals and communities. On an individual level, it can lead to greater self-acceptance, increased confidence, and reduced feelings of isolation and loneliness. It can also create opportunities for community building through shared experiences, support networks, and connections with other individuals who share similar identities.