Multiple Safewords Are Sometimes Used
Beyond red/yellow/green, couples may add words for emotional pause (blue) or thirst break (orange),
This nuance tailors safety to emotional...
Some Use "Check-In Codes" Mid-Play
A simple phrase—"Routine?"—may serve as a consent question, Answering "Yes, Ma'am" affirms flow, If discomfort arises, "Routine?" becomes a safe word trigger,...
In BDSM relationships, "Safe Words" are crucial for ensuring that no one gets hurt physically or psychologically.
However, handwritten letters may offer a safer alternative in situations where...
Teaching Internal Consent Helps Partners Grow
Some D/s dynamics include teaching submissives to check in with their bodies—pausing when sensation shifts from pleasant to painful. If this...
Smart toys are devices that can connect to the internet and interact with users through various means, such as voice commands or motion sensors. While they provide an enjoyable and entertaining...
Consent Guardians Provide Oversight
Some kink community events designate a "consent guardian"—a neutral person to watch, support, and intervene if consent is at risk. These roles were designed for...
Some Dominants may ask their Submissives during play if they are still in subspace or want to affirm their place within the power exchange. This verbal checkpoint can be used to maintain alignment,...
Breathwork, also known as conscious breathing, is an ancient practice that has been used for thousands of years to promote relaxation, reduce stress, improve mental clarity, and enhance overall...
No Means No, Always - Rules for Sexual Consent
Sexual violence occurs when someone has unwanted sexual contact with another person without their explicit consent. Whether it's physical touching,...
Renewing an agreement can be a valuable ritual for a long-term Dominant/submissive relationship that strengthens trust, communication, and connection. The process involves discussing the current...