Clara Romano, MSc
Clara Romano is an internationally recognized researcher and educator specializing in sexual roleplay, fantasy exploration, and the psychological dynamics of intimate expression. With over 12 years of experience in clinical research, workshops, and educational programming, Clara combines rigorous academic investigation with practical guidance for safe, consensual sexual exploration. Her work aims to demystify sexual fantasies, reduce stigma, and empower individuals and couples to navigate their desires consciously and safely.
Specialization
- Sexual Roleplay & Fantasy Exploration
- Consent Communication & Negotiation
- Kink-Inclusive Sexual Education
- Erotic Psychology & Intimacy Dynamics
- Relationship Enhancement through Play
Education
- 2006–2010: BSc in Psychology, University of Milan
- 2011–2013: MSc in Human Sexuality, University of Amsterdam
- 2014–2016: Advanced Certificate in Sex Therapy, AASECT-certified program
Professional Experience
- 2013–2017: Sexual Health Educator & Workshop Facilitator, Italian Center for Sexual Wellbeing
- 2017–2020: Senior Researcher, European Institute for Erotic Studies
- 2020–Present: Director of Sexual Roleplay & Exploration Programs, Intimacy Research Lab
- Private consultant for couples and individuals exploring erotic roleplay and BDSM dynamics
Research Cases and Project Outcomes
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Project: "Roleplay as a Therapeutic Tool in Couples’ Relationships" (2021–2022)
Outcome: 82% of participating couples reported increased intimacy and communication satisfaction. Study published in Journal of Erotic Studies (Vol. 14, 2022).
Quote: “Structured roleplay exercises significantly enhance mutual understanding and emotional connection in adult relationships.” – Clara Romano, MSc -
Project: "Fantasy Exploration Workshops for Sexual Self-Discovery" (2018–2020)
Outcome: Over 300 participants completed pre- and post-workshop assessments; 76% reported greater comfort in expressing desires and negotiating boundaries.
Quote: “Guided exploration reduces shame and empowers participants to safely articulate fantasies.” – Clara Romano -
Research Case: “BDSM-Inclusive Roleplay and Consent Communication” (2019)
Outcome: Developed a standardized checklist for consent negotiation in BDSM roleplay scenarios, adopted by multiple European sex-education organizations.
Quote: “Explicit consent protocols are not barriers—they are enablers of deeper erotic connection.” – Clara Romano
Selected Publications
- Romano, C. (2022). "Roleplay as a Pathway to Intimacy." Journal of Erotic Studies, 14(3), 112–130.
- Romano, C., & De Luca, M. (2020). "Negotiating Fantasy: Communication in Sexual Roleplay." International Journal of Sex Research, 18(2), 75–91.
- Romano, C. (2019). "Empowering Erotic Expression: Clinical Applications of Roleplay." Sexuality & Therapy Review, 11(1), 33–50.
Professional Memberships
- American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)
- European Network for Sexual and Reproductive Health Education (ENSRHE)
- International Society for Erotic Studies (ISES)
Work on Educational Programs
- Designer of “Erotic Roleplay & Communication” workshop series for adults
- Online modules for safe BDSM practice and fantasy negotiation
- Training programs for educators and therapists on kink-aware approaches
Interviews, Lectures, and Podcasts
- TEDx Talk: “Exploring Fantasy Safely” (2021)
- Guest on “Sex Positive Europe” podcast: “Consent and Roleplay” (2020)
- Featured in Psychology Today: “How Roleplay Strengthens Relationships” (2019)
Unique Values and Experience
Clara Romano emphasizes an evidence-based yet empathetic approach to erotic exploration. Her unique combination of clinical research, educational design, and real-world workshop facilitation empowers individuals and couples to explore sexual desires safely, consensually, and creatively. Clara is known for integrating psychological insight with practical guidance, demystifying fantasies, and promoting sexual empowerment across diverse communities.
Articles by Clara Romano, MSc
- how to navigate sexual power negotiations for healthier relationships
- how instagrams new close friends feature is changing erotic selfpresentation on social media
- roleplaying: enhancing communication, trust, and sexual satisfaction
- unlocking your sexual role preferences: how couples can find compromise through communication and experimentation
- how erotic magazines support erotic art education through educational programs and interviews
- understanding the evolution of sexual roles in relationships throughout life stages
- how roleplaying can help couples overcome sexual inhibitions and fears: a guide to common scenarios and their benefits
- fantasy & roleplaying build trust & compatibility: discover how you can deepen intimacy with your partner
- understanding the evolution of sexual roles in longterm relationships and how they affect intimacy
- exploring power dynamics through fantasy play: a guide to safe, consensual sexual roleplaying scenarios