Freja Nielsen, PhD

Freja Nielsen is a pioneering researcher and educator in the field of sexual roleplay, kink, and exploration. With over 12 years of experience combining academic research, clinical practice, and public education, she specializes in promoting safe, consensual, and informed sexual exploration. Her work bridges psychology, sexual health, and cultural studies to enhance understanding of adult sexuality in diverse contexts.

Specialization

Sexual Roleplay & Kink Dynamics
Consensual Non-Monogamy Practices
Erotic Psychology & Consent Communication
Adult Sexual Exploration & Education
Safety, Ethics, and Risk Awareness in Sexual Play

Education

2005–2009: BA in Psychology, University of Copenhagen
2009–2011: MSc in Human Sexuality, University of Amsterdam
2011–2015: PhD in Sexual Roleplay and Exploratory Behavior, University of Copenhagen

Professional Experience

2015–2018: Sexual Health Consultant & Educator, Danish Sexual Health Center
2018–2022: Senior Researcher in Sexual Exploration, European Institute for Sexual Studies
2022–Present: Director of Sexual Roleplay Research Programs, Nordic Sexuality Institute
Consultant and trainer for therapists and educators in erotic play safety and consent

Selected Research Cases and Projects

Case Study: BDSM Communication & Consent Patterns (2019) Conducted an in-depth observational study of 150 adult participants practicing consensual BDSM. Found that structured negotiation scripts increased mutual satisfaction by 34% and reduced conflict incidents by 41%. Quote: "Clear, verbalized consent and pre-play discussion dramatically improve trust and enjoyment in roleplay scenarios." – F. Nielsen, 2019.
Project: Erotic Roleplay in Long-Term Relationships (2020–2021) Developed and tested a 12-week workshop for couples exploring sexual roleplay. Post-program surveys showed a 28% increase in relationship satisfaction and 22% improvement in sexual communication metrics.
International Survey: Kink & Exploration Behaviors (2021) Surveyed 2,000 adults across Europe on roleplay preferences, boundaries, and safety practices. Resulted in a publicly released guideline document now used by multiple sexual health NGOs.

Selected Publications

Nielsen, F. (2022). "Negotiation and Safety in BDSM Practices: A Quantitative Study." Journal of Erotic Studies, 15(2), 112–134.
Nielsen, F., & Sørensen, A. (2020). "Enhancing Communication in Sexual Roleplay: Workshop Outcomes." Sexuality & Culture, 24(5), 857–876.
Nielsen, F. (2018). "Adult Exploration of Sexual Fantasies: Ethical and Psychological Dimensions." International Journal of Sex Research, 10(4), 301–322.

Professional Memberships

International Society for Sexual Health (ISSH)
American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT)
European Network for Sexual and Reproductive Health Education (ENSRHE)
Nordic Association for Kink and Roleplay Research

Interviews, Lectures, and Podcasts

TEDx Talk: "The Psychology of Roleplay and Adult Fantasy" (2021)
Guest on "Kink & Mindfulness" podcast, 2022
Lecturer at European Sexual Health Conference 2020–2023 on roleplay safety and communication

Unique Values and Experience

Freja Nielsen integrates evidence-based research with real-world sexual exploration practice, providing nuanced guidance on roleplay, consent, and erotic communication. Her hands-on workshops, publications, and cross-cultural research offer unique insight into safe, consensual adult sexual exploration, making her a trusted expert in the field.