Yael Ben-Yosef, MSc, LMFT
Yael Ben-Yosef is an internationally respected relationship therapist, conflict resolution strategist, and licensed marriage & family therapist with more than 18 years of clinical and academic experience. She specializes in evidence-based interventions for couples experiencing chronic conflict, emotional disconnection, and communication breakdown. Yael’s work integrates cognitive-behavioral frameworks, attachment-based therapy, conflict negotiation models, and intercultural communication research, offering comprehensive support for couples and families worldwide. Her publications, large-scale studies, and global educational initiatives have positioned her as a leading authority in relationship conflict prevention and healthy communication.
Specialization
- Conflict Resolution in Relationships
- Marriage & Family Therapy
- Communication Strategies for Couples
- Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
- Intercultural and Cross-Cultural Conflict Patterns
- Trauma-Informed Relationship Counseling
Education
- 2002–2006: BA in Sociology & Behavioral Sciences, Tel Aviv University
- 2006–2008: MSc in Marriage and Family Therapy, Hebrew University of Jerusalem
- 2011–2012: Advanced Certification in Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT), The International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
Professional Experience
- 2008–2013: Couples Therapist, Jerusalem Family Counseling Center
- 2013–2018: Senior Conflict Resolution Specialist, Middle East Relationship Research Institute
- 2018–Present: Director of Clinical Research & Relationship Education, Global Partnership for Healthy Communication
- Consultant for UNESCO, WHO, and private organizations on relationship conflict mitigation
Selected Scientific Publications
- Ben-Yosef, Y. (2021). “De-Escalation Models for High-Conflict Couples: A Longitudinal Study of 512 Relationships.” Journal of Couple & Family Psychology, 28(3), 245–271.
- Ben-Yosef, Y. (2019). “Conflict Patterns Across Cultures: Communication Barriers and Resolution Frameworks.” International Review of Relationship Science, 14(2), 99–130.
- Ben-Yosef, Y., & Clarke, M. (2017). “Attachment-Based Mediation Techniques for Couples with Trauma Histories.” Global Journal of Family Therapy, 6(1), 51–78.
Research Case Studies & Results
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Case Study 1: “High-Conflict Couples Intervention Program” (2018–2020)
After implementing a structured 12-week communication and negotiation protocol among 142 couples with chronic conflict, results showed:- 61% reduction in emotional escalation during disagreements
- 47% increase in perceived relationship satisfaction
- 33% reduction in conflict recurrence within 6 months
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Case Study 2: “Cross-Cultural Conflict Perception Study” (2015–2017)
A comparative study involving couples from Israel, Canada, and South Korea identified three universal predictors of relationship conflict:- Communication avoidance
- Mismatched emotional expression styles
- Unresolved micro-resentments
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Case Study 3: “Digital Mediation Tools for Couples” (2020–2023)
Developed and evaluated an AI-assisted communication feedback tool:- 82% of participants reported improved clarity during conflict discussions
- 74% reduction in “communication stagnation” events
Key Quotes from Yael Ben-Yosef
“Conflict isn’t the problem — emotional disconnection is. When partners learn to speak the same emotional language, conflict becomes a bridge, not a wall.”
“Resolution begins when both partners stop defending their wounds and start understanding their partner’s fears.”
Professional Memberships
- International Association for Relationship Research (IARR)
- American Association for Marriage and Family Therapy (AAMFT)
- European Family Therapy Association (EFTA)
- International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT)
Participation in International Projects
- Lead Researcher, UNESCO “Global Conflict Resolution Education Initiative” (2019–2022)
- Program Director, WHO “Healthy Relationships for Young Couples” (2018–2021)
- Consulting Therapist, EU “Intercultural Relationship Stability Project” (2016–2018)
Educational Program Development
- Creator of the “CALM Framework” for conflict de-escalation (used in 11 countries)
- Developer of the “Couples Communication Mastery” global online program (over 38,000 participants)
- Integrator of trauma-informed conflict prevention modules into pre-marital education curricula
Interviews, Lectures & Podcasts
- Speaker at TEDxTelAviv: “The Science of Staying Connected During Conflict” (2021)
- Guest expert on “The Relationship Lab Podcast”
- Interviewed by BBC World News on conflict prevention strategies for couples
- Lecturer at international conferences in Berlin, Toronto, and New York
Unique Values & Experience
Yael brings a rare combination of clinical expertise, research-driven insights, and intercultural relationship experience. Having worked with couples from over 40 countries, she deeply understands the cultural nuances that shape conflict dynamics. Her evidence-based interventions prioritize empathy, emotional literacy, and long-term relational resilience.
Articles by Yael Ben-Yosef
- unresolved resentment vs low libido: which has a greater impact on passion?
- uncovering the role of gender roles and sexual confidence in intimacy
- how to build intimacy despite resentment: strategies for rebuilding relationship intimacy
- the power of communal rituals of reconciliation in building trust and understanding between groups
- repeated breaches of sexual trust: how they affect expectations of relational safety, attachment, and intimacy
- sexuality and relationships how relationship equality impacts female sexual satisfaction.
- resentment between partners: how to rebuild connection after communication breakdown
- why secrecy around sexual desires hurts intimacy and how to overcome it
- the impact of sexual betrayal on intimacy: understanding its effects on physiological responses
- sexual mismatch affecting partner perception: understanding how differences in attraction can impact relationships